Laaltain

Nature Vs Nurture: Is Homosexuality a Choice?

1 جولائی، 2015

“How many nights have I spent sick with wor­ry and dis­traught by my homo­sex­u­al feel­ings because I thought I was going to be pun­ished by God for being gay”, asks Ahmed. And how all the time, he remem­bers, did he pray “that God would cure me of my homo­sex­u­al­i­ty?”

Ahmed’s dilem­ma begs one very impor­tant ques­tion. Are peo­ple real­ly born gay, or does upbring­ing or even con­scious per­son­al choice play a part? Gay peo­ple are born this way; that has long been one of the ral­ly­ing cries of LGBT move­ment in the West, and some­times the core of its argu­ment. The-born-this-way notion is often invoked by LGBT activists to explain why homo­pho­bia is inex­cus­able and dis­crim­i­na­tion inane. There is even a song in sup­port of this argu­ment. How­ev­er, oppo­nents do not see it this way and say that homo­sex­u­al­i­ty is unnat­ur­al. Noth­ing could be fur­ther from the truth.

So the entire argu­ment that homo­sex­u­al­i­ty is unnat­ur­al los­es mer­it in the light of clear evi­dence of sex­u­al diver­si­ty from the ani­mal king­dom.

Homo­sex­u­al­i­ty is a com­plete­ly nat­ur­al phe­nom­e­non which is also observed and doc­u­ment­ed in more than 1,500 ani­mal species. It is high­ly essen­tial in the lives of a num­ber of species. Dol­phins for exam­ple indulge in same sex behav­ior to build strong social bonds with­in a group. Dif­fer­ent ani­mal species use same sex behav­ior to sat­is­fy all sorts of needs like plea­sure, pair bond­ing, look­ing after the young, and social advance­ment. So the entire argu­ment that homo­sex­u­al­i­ty is unnat­ur­al los­es mer­it in the light of clear evi­dence of sex­u­al diver­si­ty from the ani­mal king­dom. Also there is a sub­stan­tial evi­dence of var­i­ous con­nec­tions between genes, brain, and hor­mones in the deter­mi­na­tion of sex­u­al iden­ti­ty. One research study con­duct­ed last year with 409 pairs of gay broth­ers found that homo­sex­u­al­i­ty was more com­mon amongst broth­ers, show­ing that sex­u­al ori­en­ta­tion is not a choice but that peo­ple are born gay or straight.

Oth­er research has pro­pound­ed or iden­ti­fied com­mon anatom­i­cal and chro­mo­so­mal traits among gay men or les­bians, and there is also ample dis­cus­sion of a gay gene . The push to iden­ti­fy and iso­late the gay gene is con­nect­ed to the belief that estab­lish­ing sex­u­al ori­en­ta­tion as an unyield­ing mat­ter of biol­o­gy, like a per­son­’s skin col­or, will make homo­pho­bia as uncon­scionable as racism and win the crit­ics over.

Instead of debat­ing whether peo­ple are born gay or not, we should focus on mak­ing sure every­one has rights and oppor­tu­ni­ties regard­less of who they love.

But the more impor­tant ques­tion is, why do we need bio­log­i­cal evi­dence to evade con­dem­na­tion of homo­sex­u­al­i­ty? Our con­sti­tu­tion and laws pro­tect reli­gious free­dom and that is not due to the fact that there is a Mus­lim, Chris­t­ian or Hin­du gene. We don’t need a bio­log­i­cal imper­a­tive to accept peo­ple who car­ry and open­ly dis­play arms as their cul­tur­al or con­sti­tu­tion­al right in this coun­try. We don’t need to be born this way to reject the notion that homo­sex­u­al­i­ty pos­es threat to the sta­bil­i­ty of the fam­i­ly. We need only note that het­ero­sex­u­al­i­ty as prac­ticed by major­i­ty of Pak­istani hus­bands who reg­u­lar­ly beat their wives is noth­ing to cel­e­brate, and yet no one is try­ing to cure the straights. There is no ratio­nal expla­na­tion for big­otry. Who is to say that fun­da­men­tal­ists who preach repar­a­tive psy­chother­a­py for gays now won’t sug­gest med­ical inter­ven­tions instead when pre­sent­ed with bio­log­i­cal evi­dence of homo­sex­u­al­i­ty? Because a person’s lack of con­trol over his or her skin col­or has hard­ly end­ed all dis­crim­i­na­tion against blacks.

“It is so dif­fi­cult to live a gay life but if peo­ple are still liv­ing this dif­fi­cult life, it has to be beyond nur­tur­ing and choice”, says an LGBT activist from Lahore. In the light of both this and the unan­swered ques­tions about devel­op­ment of sex­u­al­i­ty, there is more wis­dom and less harm in accept­ing and respect­ing homo­sex­u­al­i­ty than not. Instead of debat­ing whether peo­ple are born gay or not, we should focus on mak­ing sure every­one has rights and oppor­tu­ni­ties regard­less of who they love.